tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6093024142021646941.post7286891001985194943..comments2023-07-14T06:53:02.936-07:00Comments on The Parents Via Egg Donation Organization: When We Change Our Minds Regarding Anonymous Egg DonationPVEDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15193705233283347207noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6093024142021646941.post-54563049918448967942012-01-14T08:51:30.456-08:002012-01-14T08:51:30.456-08:00After combing the web for years, still know very l...After combing the web for years, still know very little about happened to my donate embryos. In 1991 at OHSU in OR I had a very successful IVF. implanting four embryos and freezing two sets of three. I was pregnant with a single male and carried full term. at 18 months it became obvious he was autisic and such a handful time flew. when he had just turn 3 his father, my husband died. I was so deep in greif and up to my eyeballs in getting program fast i allowed my payments to cryogentic lap and still do not know whether my son has siblings. no that im over 50 and he will be alone when i die, I find my self angry at the only 3 opptions presented by ohsu..distroy, anonomously donate or research. I did check donate when we began the process. I think it is very important to the loving memory of such a wonderful man that his son has full knowlegde of siblings if any exist. or that reserch would have been so needed on his disease. they had me over the barrel and i just caved and handed them over. i regret it. apparently most states allowed people to have some sort of say and left information should the other children ever want to know<br />who the most generous gift of life came from. but thats just me... lol i wouldnt want to rave on or anything lol thanks..mother of maybe six instead of one would be so cool. Bgamez_2008@yahoo.combrenda gameznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6093024142021646941.post-37935309488314818552010-09-30T08:58:44.386-07:002010-09-30T08:58:44.386-07:00Having just cycled via DE IVF and awaiting my firs...Having just cycled via DE IVF and awaiting my first FET, I now wish that I did know our donor. At the beginning it was too much to bear to know "the other woman"...anxieties trumped rational thinking - and perhaps still does. But for the various reasons we chose annonymous DE, we can only hope that a DE registry will be created much like the adoption registry was created. I can only provide support and guidance for our future child and I just hope that I will not feel guilty. We made decisions at the time with the best intentions for all parties involved including the child. I wish you good luck in your search, if you continue, and peace in your heart that you have done all you can do and realize that the last thing you are is a bad mother. And a huge thank you for being the founder of such a wealth of support.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6093024142021646941.post-9497489818162681172010-09-30T06:09:55.299-07:002010-09-30T06:09:55.299-07:00This is the reason I picked a donor who is willing...This is the reason I picked a donor who is willing to talk or meet.Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03270977737007796903noreply@blogger.com